Coping With Cervical Dysplasia

I’m actually the mother of the 17yr old. My daughter was 16 when she had her first abnormal pap. She had a repeat and then we were notified that she had HGSIL and severe HPV She wasn’t very open with me when started with all this, I guess thinking I would think the worst of her.

It started with an STD. She does not sleep around, just a good person who had a bad thing happen to her. Anyway we went a year messing around with her family doc (who I never really cared for) before they sent us to a gyn doc. Since then she has had a colpo, bx, and LEEP done. Two follow up paps have been abnormal, this last one I believe is pretty bad, although the doc just said severe, but he is sending us to a gyn oncologist He said that he doesnt’ want to continue with LEEPS, ect, because he doesn’t want to keep widdling away at her cervix as she is only 17 and of child bearing age. Yes I am nervous, she is too.

She is scared, doesnt’ really know why this is happening to her. Worried that she may transmit something to her steady boyfriend (for a long time after her STD she was afraid to even go out with a boy). She does’t sleep around, it was a one night thing, and now she is dealing with her action. It’s a shame.The boy actually apologized to her about what hapened, but he is not the one who is still dealing with the consequnces of it.